International Adoption Blog

09/11/07

A Guatemalan adoption sucker punch, continued

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in International Adoption Blog at 12:59 pm , 443 words, 283 views  
Categories: Adoption Advocacy

Continued from the previous post.

As an example of how the situation at the Guatemalan orphanage, Casa Quiviria, has fueled anti-adoption fire like gas on a barbecue, we've been looking at a blog meant to burn international adoption to a crisp and leave nothing but ash.

Taking the same quotes from the same story on the same woman, Ana Escobar, who we met in the weak and wobbly story I wrote about recently ... Remember the one with the mysteriously edited headline? ... the regurgitated pap gets the typical twist that tries to take unsubstantiated guesswork and turn it into proof that kidnapping in Guatemala equals adoption.

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(Tragic though her tale may be ... and it most certainly is since her child was reported taken from her at gunpoint ... Ms. Escobar's dedicated assumption that her baby was taken for adoption is nothing more than that. As the hysteria builds, international adoption now holds the same place in the minds of Guatemalans that snatching for body parts held a few years ago when that rumored horror was the top of the myth hit parade.)

Referring to the political maneuvering that is the most likely cause of the Casa Quivira baby grab as a "... a harbinger of hope to Guatemalans citizens worried about losing their children", the blogger asks: "... does anyone--adoptive parents looking at their referral photos, adoptive parents gazing on the longed-for child sleeping in their arms, the American agency who has stayed in business another year and been honored for their humanitarian work, the US government that has responded to the demands of a vocal voters that demand that adoption remain open despite problems--ANYONE--care about the grief of a Guatemalan mother?"

What incredible and insulting arrogance!

Apparently, because this blogger has personal experience with unethical adoption she has been awarded the torch of self-righteous judge and jury of all in international adoption, and in her toting the thing she's decided all come up lacking.

With anti-adoption the message at its core, although flimsily disguised as a kick-up-the-backside stab at reform, this blog and others like it should be seen in the context of the agenda inspiring them.

With not even a passing mention of the plight of thousands of Guatemalan children, no acknowledgment of the fates many of those adopted would have faced had they not found families, and not a single option dropped behind as a ray of hope, the story is only half-told at best from the get-go. Add to that the personal spin, and the murkiness of the intentionally perpetuated miasma becomes easy to see straight through.



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Comment from: hslowe [Member] Email
So why do you think the baby was kidnapped at gunpoint?
PermalinkPermalink 09/11/07 @ 12:56
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
That was the account reported, where her assumption of its fate was only that.
PermalinkPermalink 09/11/07 @ 21:00
Comment from: hslowe [Member] Email
You misunderstand my question, I think.

Why do you believe that someone would kidnap a baby at gunpoint? You obviously feel it's wrong to assume the baby was wanted for adoption. Does that mean you also don't believe adoption was the baby's fate? Or only that since we can't know for sure, we shouldn't talk about possibilities/probabilities?
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/07 @ 06:22
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
I'd say I was pretty clear about this in the post, but for your benefit I'll say it again ...

I believe kidnappings happen for all sorts of horrible reasons, the overwhelmingly huge bulk of which have nothing to do with international adoption. I think assuming a kidnapping is linked to adoption is either a knee-jerk reaction to tabloid-type hype or a play to cast adoption in a negative light.
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/07 @ 06:28
Comment from: soblessed [Member] Email
As usual, S, people with the inarguable position of "I've been there, so I should know" use the broadest of brushes to paint a picture on a situation far, far more complex than a single brush, no matter how broad, could possibly handle.

There are tens of thousands of adoption experiences. Is it a matter of numbers? If we find five people who say adoption is bad, but only four people who say it's good, does that mean we ban adoption? If the five people are on the "adoption is good" side does that mean we push adoption as the ONLY solution to the causes of relinquishment without a look at some much needed reforms? Hardly. Both of those positions are immature, selfish and unrealistic. It's a matter of looking at a WHOLE situation, not just your part in it. Looking at it clearly, with eyes to see the bad as well as the good. Eyes to see where reforms are needed and where other practices need to stop altogether. Eyes to see where adoption works and is a loving, caring and compassionate response to some of life's most unfair tragedies. It's recognizing the trauma of a birthmother without taking the blind and unfounded step of assuming an end to international adoption is the quick and easy solution to the CAUSES of relinquishment.

Frankly, it's picking your head up long enough to realize that not all experiences are the same as yours....
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/07 @ 12:26
Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
Very true...
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/07 @ 14:35
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