International Adoption Blog

06/23/06

Can I Tell You How Cute My Kid Is? Should I?

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in International Adoption Blog at 07:48 am , 287 words, 74 views  
Categories: Kid stuff
As readers know, I live in a land of simple pleasures and low-tech toys. The kids' beach bag carries a ball, a couple of empty formula tins (with the free scoops that come with), floaties and some cookie cutters. Fun is had.

When not beaching it we still have very little use for batteries ... a box of band-aids is a costume shop and a cloth diaper makes a super hero.

Today, clothes pins (or pegs, as they're called here) are the plaything du jour. They started out attached to the ends of Sam's long and rather elegant digits. Ta da! Edward Clothespeghands!

SEB2/shbA short while later he branched out, and I took the photo. He seems to think a head of wooden, spring-loaded dreadlocks make him look like Tarzan.

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Hmmmmm.

Okay ...

Now, there's been talk on some groups about sharing too much info about kids via blogs.

Adoption stories are popular, and many families like to tell theirs. Prospective adopters learn a lot from reading them, plus get a good peek at the light at the end of the very long tunnel they must pass through before becoming parents.

Blogs, both the personal sort and the professional examples like this one, put information on the internet that could possibly be there forever. Are those of us posting stepping on our kids' toes by telling more about them, and about us, than we should?

I'm of about ten minds on this issue and would love to hear opinions from any who have one ... or two.

In the meantime, I post silly photos of Sam because I'm his mom ... and I can.

Isn't he adorable?

Will he someday be angry that I've shared this with you? Once again ... hmmmm ...

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: BarbaraR. [Member] Email
CUTE!! CUTE!!! CUTE!!!!

Barbara
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Comment from: Michelle Vandepas [Member] Email · http://fost-adopt.adoptionblogs.com/
Sandra, Hi from Iceland... I worry about putting photos on thet net and telling too much of K´s story and my other kids. I have changed names, but people who know me, ... well,, it is a lot of information.. Still I try to live in a way that is not fearful... I wouldn´t think you´d have a problem where you live. _I just hope no one comes and finds me because of my stories!
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Comment from: Karianne [Member] Email · http://fertilityblogs.com
What a doll!
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Comment from: Ellen Rardin [Member] Email · http://open.adoptionblogs.com
Sandra,I think every thing you have shared about your children has been pretty general and just nice. However,I have to say I am appalled when parents share id information on their children,then write at great length about their psychiatric diagnosis,birth history,bizarre behaviors,sexual acting out and parental frustrations. I see this a lot on many different adoption websites.
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