International Adoption Blog

12/23/06

China: New rules, do the math ... 2

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in International Adoption Blog at 03:21 am , 476 words, 80 views  
Categories: Adoption Information, China
Continued from here where I was hesitating to spout off about the new China adoption rules ...

There are a significant number of people writing now about the new rules being a valid way for China to address the issue of supply and demand.

Comments like the following are very common:

It seems to me be more of an issue with not enough "healthy" babies to meet the demand. There is an increase in domestic adoption within China, a decrease in the number of babies being abandoned, and flood of ever-increasing files from the rest of the world.

At some point, you simply run out of "healthy" children...


Sorry, but ... excuse me?

To have this sort of thinking show up in the same week that I've been reading, writing and thinking deeply about female infanticide hits me SO the wrong way.

Do people really think that there's a dearth of baby girls in China? That they are rare commodities that suddenly have some great value?

PAAALLLLLEEEEAAAASSE! Get real!

First, no matter what ... one child policy or no ... girls in much of China are considered less than worthless. Getting rid of them, one way or another, is done as a matter of course, and has been for a very long time.

Over the years, there were millions not dumped in gutters only because they didn't make it even that far. The existence of orphanages may just be the only out mothers have. If there's one choice, and that choice is leaving a baby alongside a road near an orphanage or strangling-poisoning-drowning-burying it alive ... that's not a variety of options, just one that means you kill your child ... which would you choose?

Google "Female infanticide in China" and read all about it.

Start here with Gendercide Watch, where the true scoop is put right out there for anyone to see, complete with attribution, references and cold, hard facts.

"A tradition of infanticide and abandonment, especially of females, existed in China before the foundation of the People's Republic in 1949," note Zeng et al.. ("Causes and Implications," p. 294.) According to Ansley J. Coale and Judith Banister, "A missionary (and naturalist) observer in [China in] the late nineteenth century interviewed 40 women over age 50 who reported having borne 183 sons and 175 daughters, of whom 126 sons but only 53 daughters survived to age 10; by their account, the women had destroyed 78 of their daughters." (Coale and Banister, "Five Decades of Missing Females in China," Demography, 31: 3 [August 1994], p. 472.)

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Sorry, but I don't believe the Chinese government is tightening up adoption rules because they're running out of unwanted baby girls, but rather simply because they can.

I'll keep saying this ...

There are NOT more potential adoptive parents in the world than there are children that need families. The ratio of starving, dying, suffering children to potential adopters is probably close to 100,000 to one.

So, facryinoutloud, do the math, already ...

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: Veronika [Member] Email
Personally, I don't agree with those that say the demand is higher than the supply. I believe that there are plenty of healthy babies, they are just not paper ready.. plus what you said. They changed the rules because they can. Maybe they can push up the costs by making sure only the most wealthy get to adopt. Or maybe they just want less work.. hahaha.

Anyway, I wanted to answer your email and then saw that you posted about the whole China disaster. As you know, we want to adopt from China, but have been looking into Vietnam, etc because the wait for China is so long, plus I'll only be 30 in 3 years. With the changes, I think that the waiting period for other Asian countries is going to get considerably longer. There is a huge influx of would be China adopters (who no longer qualify) into Vietnam and Taiwan, just to name two.

We can't even think of starting adoption proceedings for the next year or two. We had a very bad year where we started a business which didn't do very well, so we had to sell our home and move in with my parents to get back on our feet. I don't think that makes for a great homestudy.

Anyway, I've been thinking long and hard about all of this and how we might end up with a two year wait in any Asian country. So, I've been thinking about Cambodia a lot... not that I haven't thought about it since we exchanged emails. You make a pretty compelling argument for considering Cambodia when adopting. Well, I just wanted to let you know that no, we haven't started paperwork yet and we will probably be going with a country other than Vietnam.

Veronika
PermalinkPermalink 12/23/06 @ 11:07
Comment from: Veronika [Member] Email
Oh, believe it or not, I actually forgot to mention something in my previous comment. I've read time and time again about people posting about lying about their health, financial status, etc to get a child. They have a "whatever it takes" attitude. If adoptive parents expect an ethical adoption, shouldn't they be prepared to be ethical themselves? Just some food for thought.
PermalinkPermalink 12/23/06 @ 11:12
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
"If adoptive parents expect an ethical adoption, shouldn't they be prepared to be ethical themselves? "

The obligation to be truthful and honest is non-negotiable! The investigation and documentation potential adoptive families must comply with ... homestudies, police clearance, etc... it would be difficult to fabricate.

Where have you read 'time and time again' about people lying? I'm very interested to see this.
PermalinkPermalink 12/23/06 @ 20:20
Comment from: Veronika [Member] Email
If you read through this thread

http://forums.adoption.com/china-adoption/278203-annual-ccaa-meeting-news.html

you'll see them mentioning people lying about their health status, sexual preferences (i.e. adopting as singles because China doesn't allow gay couples to adopt) and financial status. Here is just a quote from the thread where one woman justified whatever her friends did to get their daugther out of China I know of one child who most likely would have died in China, were it not for the decisions her parents made, regardless of whether they were right or wrong in your eyes or my eyes. I've read about "fudging a little" on some blogs as well, but can't point out specific ones right now. I read so many blogs that I never go back to, it would be close to impossible to name a specific one.
PermalinkPermalink 12/24/06 @ 03:33
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