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01/11/07

One way to deal with orphans ...

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in International Adoption Blog at 12:04 am , 514 words, 213 views  
Categories: Country News, The UN, Romania, Pakistan
I am constantly amazed by the way politics moves through the arena of children's issues and needs, and the craft with which spin tweaks dire circumstances toward a shiny, smiley-face projection of the situation.

Case in point, this report from Pakistan titled, "Government planning model orphanages across country."

Sources said the Social Welfare Ministry was planning to introduce model orphanages in almost all major cities of the country because most of the donor agencies including the United Nation had demanded the government upgrade orphanages to provide better education, food, medication, sports and other facilities to orphans.

Sources said orphans would be given free education till they could earn on their own, they would be provided facilities including dispensaries, playgrounds and schools. They said orphans would also be provided free technical and computer education.

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Right now, of course, this is all in the talking / paperwork phase, with the Pakistani federal government asking that all provincial governments submit their summaries of projects by the end of February.

Okay.

For starters, this report says the Lahore orphanage will be the first tackled and will take ten years.

And if my guess is anywhere close to the mark, it will cost a bazillion dollars, and someone will get rich in the meantime, and officials will be bribed with every inspection, and administrators will line a pocket or two.

Hmmm. And how many children will find safety and comfort and love and real care?

The Kashmir earthquake in October of 2005 killed 73,276 and jolted 3.3 million Pakistanis into homelessness. More than fifty-thousand children were orphaned. Others have been since, or abandoned due to the desperation of parents with no resources for too many kids. For most of these, NOTHING has been done. They freeze again this winter in flimsy tents ... if they are lucky.

None of these children are adoptable, partly because of religious issues, partly because international organizations decided a week after the quake that permanent families outside the area was not a good idea or worried that some would take advantage and traffic kids for unsavory purposes.

I can't help but wonder how many quake victims have gone to slavery and the sex trade, or starvation and death, because adoption was not an option.

Does anyone care?

Would a country capable of establishing a system of truly 'model orphanages' have taken this long to do anything for the most obvious of children in need?

Model orphanages. Romania had model orphanages. Remember those? Ceausescu had them. Now they're closing them down because the popular trend in Europe is fewer orphanages and the EU is demanding lower numbers.

This is the UN's idea of caring for children in Pakistan. And it's not even about orphanages ... it's about giving the appearance of being about orphanages, about spin.

As far as I'm concerned, the only 'model orphanage' the world should have is a summer camp of high-impact aerobics and ice tea with lettuce lunches for Kate Mosses and Naomi Campbells, and if the UN wants to fund it, fine. It would be easy to spin that into a story with a pretty face.

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: s [Member] Email
Laughing to think about your proposed "model" orphanages (-:
PermalinkPermalink 01/11/07 @ 08:23
Comment from: claire [Member] Email
On the topic of politics, I think there are citizens/politicians of many countries who would rather their orphans perish than be raised by Americans.
L.
PermalinkPermalink 01/11/07 @ 10:09
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Lisa,
That's true, I'm sad to know. But it's not just Americans who adopt, so saying 'no' to adoptions does not only stop kids from coming to the US.
PermalinkPermalink 01/11/07 @ 20:21
Comment from: DeannaBelle [Member] Email
You have no idea how mad I am at that country right now. Wait, maybe you do!

You are DEAD ON about those beaurocrats padding their pockets, skipping inspections. What inspections? I am just so angry right now about the whole damned country.

Yes! There are MILLIONS of unwanted children who are not available for adoption. No one Pakistan is reaching out to them, and no one will let any of us reach out to them. SO, only creepy child molestors will bother with them. Pisses me off!
PermalinkPermalink 11/01/07 @ 20:39
Comment from: nwsarah23 [Member]
While some of the content you reported in this piece is based on facts, the conclusion that no one in Pakistan cares about the orphans is far from the truth, and I would like to set the record straight, speaking from experience and personal observation. As the adoptive mother of two children from Pakistan, and the founder of Pakistan Adoption Group, I can tell you that a lot of people care, and continue to do so on a daily basis. We disagree with the Pakistan government's stance regarding adoption of orphans. We have submitted petitions to the Government of Pakistan to open up adoption of the earthquake (2005) orphans, and have lobbied with several government agencies and local agencies and NGO's in Pakistan. We also reach out to different organizations that place children for adoption and help prospective adoptive families work through the process of adopting children from Pakistan. Under the laws of the country, adoption is not recognized and you can get guardianship of the child through family courts. Also, only people of Pakistani origin are eligible to adopt from Pakistan, and adoption has to be finalized in the country of residence of the adoptive parents (if they are based outside Pakistan). And as far as building model orphanages in Pakistan is concerned, There are several non-profit agencies that run these orphanages as a social service. I have visited some of these facilities and seen the level of care the children are getting first-hand. We also visited with some of the earthquake orphans housed in one of these facilities. The orphanages are being funded through local and international support, and are managed diligently by dedicated staffers who are not out to pad their pockets. While an orphanage is not a substitute for the love and sense of belonging to a permanent family, it is a safe place for the children to call their own. They are built on a family model where a house mother takes care of several children that live in a "home" with their "siblings", meaning other children in the home. They have access to good education and medical facilities. While the ban on adoption is in place, these orphanages are the next best thing to a permanent family for these children. Please know that there is a lot more that needs to be done for the children of Pakistan, however, it is not fair to malign the whole country and people and promote negative sentiments against them. It is also not fair to assume that Americans are the only ones with the goodness in their hearts to adopt children from overseas, there are plenty of Pakistanis who are already doing just that and there is a growing awareness in the country about the issue.
PermalinkPermalink 12/18/07 @ 01:18
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