
As domestic adoption slowing gains popularity in India, stories and information designed to share and educate are appearing more often in the Indian media.
This on easing the process for adopted children is one example of how attitudes are changing in the country, and how some are trying to pave the way for more and smoother transitions.
President of the Voluntary Adoption Resource Agency and adoptive mother, Vinita Bhargava, is quoted on explaining adoption to her daughter. Her take on adoption in India is apparently quite new and different, as she's written a book,
"Adoption in India: Politics and Experiences" which is said to challenge the prevailing thoughts on adoption in the country.
And not that we're not all aware of how hard life it can be for many Indian children, but
this story does serve to remind us.
It's about a four-year-old boy whose mother died when he was only one, so is completely and totally dependent on his father for care.
The father is now in prison ... has been for more than a year and with no suggestion of any release date ... so the boy is, too.
Officials at the jail would like to send the boy to school, having taken a liking to the poor, incarcerated little tyke, but his father is having nothing to do with that idea.
''I will keep him with myself. He will live and die with me. He can become whatever he wants to, with me. He will become whatever he is destined to,'' said Shahid, Saddam's father.
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Not that school would necessarily be a positive experience, as
this story indicates.
It seems in Mumbai, at least, the hoops to nursery school are placed very high and are not easily negotiated with difficult admissions tests required before a child is accepted.
A court banned such tests in Delhi, but that ruling carries no weight in other places, so 16-month-olds in Mumbai are having to concentrate on learning the things they'll need for acceptance into nursery school: nursery rhymes, the alphabet, and something they call pattern writing.
With India at or near the top of the world's fastest growing economies, the pressure is on those in the segment of the population that is set to gain from the shift toward global leadership to make certain their children are on their way to being in line for the goodies.
Parts of the country are changing at close to the speed of light, while in others people continue to live ... and to struggle ... much as they have for generations. The in-country comparisons make for interesting studies.
In 2006, 320 immigrant visas were issued for Indian children adopted by American families. For more information on the adoption process click here.