International Adoption Blog

11/20/06

Romania: The children suffer

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in International Adoption Blog at 12:49 am , 457 words, 234 views  
Categories: Country News, Romania
Anyone reading this blog even occasionally will most likely have come across a diatribe or two on Her Royal Baronessnessmess Emma Nicholson. I can't stand the woman, although I've not met her and hope to never have the occasion to do so, because of what she almost single-handedly has done to children of Romania out of some twisted concept of righteous I-know-what's-good-for-you-so-there POV ... and because she's tried very hard to smear her views across international adoption in general.
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The woman still touts her efforts as successful and correct, against all common sense and hard evidence.

The latest on the hard evidence front comes from Mental Disability Rights International , (MDRI), and is enough to make a decent person sick.

Mental Disability Rights International (MDRI), has found children with disabilities hidden and wasting away, near death, in Romania's adult psychiatric facilities. A report released by MDRI, Hidden Suffering: Romania's Segregation and Abuse of Infants and Children with Disabilities, describes teenagers weighing no more than 27 pounds. Some children are tied down with bedsheets, their arms and legs twisted and left to atrophy.

Despite Romanian government claims that it has ended the placement of babies in institutions, MDRI found infants languishing in a medical facility so poorly staffed that the children never leave their cribs. Many of these children have no identity papers. Officially, they do not exist.

These shocking revelations come at a time when Romania, in its effort to join the European Union (EU), is under pressure to reduce the number of children in institutions. Romanian officials admitted to MDRI that they had no idea how many children with disabilities are in adult facilities.

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Gee. That rather explains some of the numbers the Baronmess spouts when she's talked about reduced numbers of orphans, doesn't it? There are bound to be fewer in orphanages if they started hiding them in adult psychiatric facilities.

And doesn't that sound so much better that international adoption for these kids?

See the photo? That's a real kid in one of these places. A teenager that weighs 27 pounds. Imagine that child adopted 5 years ago and now growing up in Redding, California or Urbana, Illinois or Bournemouth, England ...

And, no, adoption would not have been the answer for all of Romania's unwanted children, but FOR GOD'S SAKE! it would be for some, and stopping the international adoption process in its tracks in 2001 has condemned so many to the fate the MDRI is now exposing.

And if anyone thinks banning international adoption puts a dent in trafficking, you're fooling yourself. You can bet the sex trade in children thrives in Romania.

So now, these are the choices ... hidden from the world in institutions or sold for the sex trade or other forms of slavery.

Good job, Baronmess.


Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: S [Member] Email
Good job, Sandra.
PermalinkPermalink 11/20/06 @ 06:45
Comment from: Nancy Spoolstra [Member] Email · http://attachment-disorder.adoptionblogs.com/
That picture just makes me ill. Words just don't seem adequate...
PermalinkPermalink 11/20/06 @ 18:49
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
S-
For some reason my email to you won't go through. I was trying to thank you for taking the time to comment, and hope that you're not saying, 'good job' to me in the same tone I was saying it to the Baronmess.

Nancy,
Some world, heh?
PermalinkPermalink 11/21/06 @ 07:04
Comment from: claire [Member] Email
This is the photo that should be in the N.Y. Times instead of the anti-Guatemalan article with a photo of a Guatemalan baby on a dollar bill.
I cried when I saw this poor child. How can anyone see a child like this and not do something?
I'm so friggin appalled. I HATE anti-adoption people and I hate anyone who willingly hurts children in any way.
Lisa
PermalinkPermalink 11/21/06 @ 07:05
Comment from: lucymom [Member] Email
This hurts me so badly. My son was adopted in 2000 just before the adoptions closed. He is 11 now and we want to take him someday to see Romania. I really had hoped that they would reopen by now. How very very sad for all those children left behind.
PermalinkPermalink 12/28/06 @ 06:40
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